1. Is your life anything like it was two years ago?
Not at all. I’ve definitely gotten a better grasp of who I am and what I want out of life now than I did 2 years ago for one. But I still have my fair share of issues, but who doesn’t? Although, I feel like I can handle them in a more effective way than I used to. So in conclusion, a lot of personal growth and a lot more responsibilities as well.
2. What are you supposed to be doing right now?
Pshh, Idk, sleeping? Get off my back, mom! I CAN’T BE TAMED!!!
3. Are you nice to everyone?
In general, I’m a pretty nice guy. But I can also be a sarcastic dick, that’s just how I show my affection. So if you’re someone that I fancy, you’re goingto get the dick-treatment. Wow, that just got really dirty. I’m sorry to any mothers who stumbled upon that while they were trying to search for adorable cat videos…really sorry.
4. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
Yes, my first real friend that I made when I changed schools sophomore year was an unexpected crush that I had because the first time we met was super awkward. It was in chemistry class and I had nowhere to sit so I plopped a squat at my soon-to-be-best friend’s table and she just kind of stared at me with this “uhhh, who are you and why are you breathing my air?” look and somehow that got us on the road to being besties! I would’ve asked her out, but we both joined this peer-mentoring club and one of the big rules was that you couldn’t date within the club… the funny thing is I didn’t find out that she liked me back until I started going out with someone else! Life can be funny that way. I’m glad things worked out the way they did though, otherwise I would’ve lost a great friend.
5. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?
Definitely. I know that’s what a lot of cheaters say, but hear me out. I’ve made it my goal to only get in a relationship with someone if we have great chemistry and I can see us having a future together (call me old fashioned, but I just don’t see the point in getting emotionally, financially, and physically invested in someone if you can’t see yourself marrying them. It’s just a huge waste of time otherwise) and while I might be tempted, I would never jeopardize a lifetime of happiness for a few minutes of something new that I’ll regret in the morning.
6. Are you good at hiding your feelings?
Depends on what I’m feeling. I can hide happiness no problem. No matter how happy I am, I can hide that s**t away for years. I can’t hide extreme depression though. Slight sadness and a touch of melancholy, perhaps. But once I’m depressed, you’ll know for sure. Same goes for if I’m super pissed. If you’re the one who pissed me off, you’ll know for sure.
7. Do you think you like someone?
Not even in the slightest. I know, for the most part, what characteristics my ideal woman has, but I just haven’t met anyone who fits the bill. I might post that list up if anyone’s interested.
8. Do you prefer to be friends with girls or boys?
For a big chunk of my life prior to college, the majority of my friends have always been girls. Sure my bestest friend in the whole wide world to date is a guy, but he was home-schooled so during the week I would always hang with the girls cuz guys in middle school and the greater part of high school were kind of gross and immature and I guess I had a way with the ladies. However, towards the end of my senior year I started to chill with more and more bros cuz let’s face it, there are only so many times a guy can get rejected by women in a year before he gets sick of them. Plus, in college everyone on my floor was a guy so my entire friend-circle has pretty much been flipped on it’s head. As to which gender I prefer, a year ago I would’ve said girls but I’m gonna go with my bros on this one! I’ve just found that making friends with a guy is slightly easier cuz the majority of the guys I hang out with have more in common with me than my girl friends do. Plus, I have too many girl friends as is, gosh darn it!
9. Has any one of your friends ever seen you cry?
A select few have seen me on the brink of tears, but I could never bring myself to actually cry in front of them. I just felt like they would think that I was doing it for attention.
10. Have you ever cried over a girl?
You know, there have been times where I was so broken hearted over a girl that all I wanted to do was cry. I would literally sit at my desk, play the saddest sounding music you could imagine and just pray for tears to stream down my face…but I would never cry. I guess it’s because deep down, even if I didn’t want to admit it, I knew that that girl who had broken my heart wasn’t “the one”. I’m both looking forward to, and fearfully dreading, the day I meet a woman worth crying over.
11. Is there something that happened in your past that you hate talking about?
In general, I hate talking about any situation in my past that includes me making a fool out of myself for, say it with me now, A GIRL. Noticing a pattern in my life? Lol I swear I didn’t plan this. The most recent misadventure happened last winter. I had just met a very pretty young trombone-player who was obsessed with Spongebob. If that doesn’t sound like a soulmate then I don’t know what does!..or so I thought! We were getting along great, so I decided to tell her how I felt about her since we had been spending a decent amount of time with each other. Well on the night that I told her, she was hanging out with some friends so she said she would talk to me the next day. I kid you not, I never heard from that girl ever again. I felt like a complete fool, more-so than usual cuz usually the girls have the lady balls to reject me right then and there or to my face in the near future at least. But not this one. She ate my whoppers, robbed me of my faith in the human race, and left me out in the cold like little orphan Annie. Except, you know, the exact opposite of that lol. Now whenever anyone mentions her name I involuntarily barf. It’s such a hassle at times, but I think it gets my point across.
So there’s part 4 of my Get to Know Me series, what do you guys think? Should I do more of these? Less if these? Do you guys even care? Lord knows I don’t ; ) lol. Also, I wanna here from you! Do you guys have something embarrassing that you hate to talk about in public? If you’d like to answer this, or any other questions that I’ve answered, just inbox me and I’ll be sure to post it asap! One more thing, if anyone at all wants me to post my ideal woman list, just let me know (there are at least 40 of you that read my posts so I’m betting one of you wants more o’ this. C’mon people!)
Anyways, have a goodnight and I’ll catch y’all on the flip-side, bye!
22. What are you sitting on right now?
My bed. Need a minute to process that?
23. Does anyone regularly (other than family) tell you they love you?
24. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?
Ohhhh yeah. I had a thing for one of my friends’ girlfriend when I saw her again for the first time in nearly 3 years. She was pretty awesome and my friend would always talk about how he wouldn’t be too torn up if they broke up. So in my mind I was all “Hey buddy, I’ll take her off your hands!” I wound up getting over her, thankfully, and she and him are still together to this very day.
11. Are you a social or an antisocial person?
It all depends on how I’m feeling, but I’m generally a social butterfly! Making friends is always fun
12. Have you ever kissed someone whose name begins with the letter ‘B’?
13. What about ‘S’?
The only 2 girls that I’ve ever kissed (one being the girl I was dating for 2 weeks and the other being a girl that led me on for a few months) both had names that started with ‘S’. Remind me to steer clear or anymore ‘S’ girls lol
Here are the first 10 answers to the questions I posted not too long ago. Buckle up; my psyche is chock full of twists and turns!
1. Think of the last person who said I love you, do you think they meant it?
Well unless my mother suddenly turned into some kind of domestic psycho, yes. I think it’s safe to assume she meant it. Lol
2. Would you date an 18-year-old at the age you are now?
I’d be lucky to get a date of any age tbh… but since I’m 18 (going on 19 next month) an 18 year old will have to do. I promise I’m not a pedophile
3. When’s the last time you were aggravated and happy at the same time?
When my friends and I decided to go see 22 Jump Street instead of How to Train Your Dragon 2. Don’t get me wrong, I loved 22 Jump Street, but I’ve been waitingto see How to Train Your Dragon 2 for ever! I guess I would’ve felt the same way if we didn’t get to see 22 Jump Street. #firstworldproblems #amiright?